Just came home from work, thought about logging in and checking my AH mails, then .... boom.
What about creating a filter in this queue, eg:
If the server is full, you auto get into queue list, but let's imagine that there is an algorithm to check if you have any instance of lineage 2 already online at the server, if yes, you really go to last spot in the queue, if not, (like you just came home and want to log in with you main account) the algorithm will check your data and allow you to bypass the queue and enter the server, or wait for the minimum as possible time in it.
This is really killing the will to play this game, I know it's temporary, but how much time?